February 8, 2021
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Sam died Sam died Sam died
We were there by his side
Then he was gone
An empty vessel
Sam died Sam died
It was quick and a very long time.
Sam died Sam died
I’m doing my thing
But Sam died Sam died
I’m not watching his suffering
Sam died Sam died
No need to rise to keep him fed
Sam died Sam died
Now I’m here alone instead
Sam died Sam died
He didn’t walk he couldn’t talk
He watched TV but couldn’t see
He could barely swallow
But what went down
Was of little use
Sam died Sam died Sam died
I cleaned the mess
Trashed legal papers
His clients’ vapors
Wiped the blood
Held him still
Helped him lift
Where went his will?
I watch as this man disappeared
The runner slowed
The the legs not go
The eyes uncentered
The head askew
The big argumenter
This non stop preacher
This news junky
This everyone’s teacher
This proud man
This proud father
Could be more monkey
Could be so mean
Could make a scene
He looked of abuse
I called him Sticks
He almost smiled
How does a six foot body
Live in 90 pounds?
How does one so vital
Loose so much joy filled ground?
No more banter. No more fight.
No more work long into the night.
Stop the laughter
The crazy giggle is gone
As the temper way too strong
And the boasts
They’d never cease
They’re gone as well
That I hardly mind
It’s a quiet time
Will I adjust?
Adjust I must
But what to do?
Who to be?
What am I
Without he?
He burned so bright
Then melted away
Extinguished on that February day
…………………………………………
Sam lives Sam lives
Sam lives on today
He lives on today in a whole new way
As we gather on the bay
Here is where he found his joy
His brain would work
To best the game
CompetitionXR was his toy
He would always be that boy
Sam lives in the lives he’s touched
Sometimes kind. Sometimes rough.
To many he will always bring a smile
Even those who he might rile
As we leave him here at sea
We know the place he wants to be
We will laugh and cry and spin his tale
Oh that man with so much wind in his sail.
No goodbyes. He is still here.
In each of us. The moments we share
He is at peace. As am I.
Time will tell us how to be true
And take us all when our time is due.
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I don’t come on facebook much anymore, but wanted to repost some sad news. My dad died this Friday. Despite knowing this was coming for 8 years (he had a neurodegenerative disease), saying goodbye is still tough. He attended every single show my band played in high school and even got their early to help us sound check. When I went to college, he again attended every show for my acapella group and even recorded them all for our YouTube channel.I feel so so lucky to have had him. Here’s a little site my mom put together for him: http://themansam.comDonate to cure PSP: https://www.psp.or
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I am so sorry, Brett. I remember how wonderfully supportive your dad and mom were to Octet and they included us Tones as well.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m glad you had so many wonderful years with him making memories you’ll be able to cherish forever. sending love and support to you and your family
Really sorry to hear this, Brett.
I am so very sorry to hear this, Brett. Sending thoughts to you and your family through these hard times.
So sorry for your loss, Brett. He seemed to have a great sense of humor. May he RIP. Take care.
I am sorry Brett. Sending you so much love and strength.
So sorry for your loss. May his memory be a blessing.
So sorry to hear this Brett. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts.
I’m so sorry. My deepest condolences
so sorry for your loss Brett
So sorry for the loss of your dear dad. My deepest condolences to you and your family.
Nothing I can say will ease the pain but I know the feeling, and it’s an awful one. Stay strong my man! Here if you ever need anything!
He sounds like he was an amazing Dad, Brett. I’m so sorry for your loss and hope that you and your family can grieve and remember him
So sorry for your loss I am sending love and prayers your way
Brett, I’m so sorry. Thinking of you and your family.
Brett, I’m so deeply sorry for your loss and pain. I remember how supportive your dad always was when we were in high school.
Sending lots of love!!
Sorry to hear this Brett. We’ve only crossed paths briefly in a far away place but I could tell that your dad raised an awesome person, and he should forever be proud. Condolences bro
Very sorry for your loss
sorry to hear Brett.
Prayers to you and the Fam
I’m so sorry Brett, sending lots of love
My sincerest condolences, Brett.
My condolences Brett, he is resting in peace
Lots of love to you and your family – may his memory be a blessing
Your dad was a great roadie! You and your family are in my thoughts.
So sorry for your loss, Brett. Thinking of you and your family.
So sorry to hear this Brett. My condolences.
Sorry for your loss and deepest condolences to you and your family
Sending you big hugs friend. I’m so sorry for your loss
So sorry – keep the good memories alive
Brett, I’m so sorry. Sending love to you and your family
So sorry for your loss man. Praying for you and your family.
My condolences to you and your family Brett.
My deepest condolences, Brett.
So sorry for your loss, Brett.
So sorry man. Be sure to take some time for yourself.
I’m so sorry, Brett. *hugs* He sounds like a great dad.
Sending you lots of love today Brett
I’m so sorry for your loss Brett
sorry to hear this brett RIP
So sorry Brett, sounds like he was an amazing father!!!
Sounds like an incredible dad, very sorry for your loss
Sorry to hear about this terrible loss! Thinking of you and your family.
Sorry to hear about your loss Brett. Your dad seems like such a champ and reading his story and your words about him were inspirational.
I remember your dad. He seemed like a great guy. I’m sorry for your loss, Brett.
So sorry for your loss, Brett. Praying for you and your family.
I’m so sorry, Brett. Thinking of you and your family.
My condolences Brett
Very sorry to hear Brett Goldstein.deepest condolences to you and the family
Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi raji’un – my prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Please let me know if I can do anything to be there for you.
So sorry for your loss, Brett
So sorry to hear that Brett, thinking of you and your family!
Barbara Silverman
To my beloved friends, family, and many admirers:
I regret to inform you that I passed away February 5th, 2021.
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So sorry Barbara… be strong
Really sorry to hear this news, please know you are in our thoughts and prayers during this time.
Barbara, I know Sam fought so hard. I’m so sorry for your loss. Xoxoxo
Sending you all my good thoughts and prayers. God bless your family. Always, Sue B.
Oh Barbara. I’m so very sorry.
I am on the edge of tears at this loss. I too am very sad about this news! God Bless!
So very sorry for your loss, Barbara. My sincerest condolences.
My deepest condolences to you and your family. I never met Sam but through your eyes, posts and photos, I felt I did. I read the website – it is a lovely memorial tribute. His life and your life together will live in…
So sorry for your loss. Hugs.
Thinking about you and your family. I’m sad for your loss.
Sending you prayers and good thoughts your way. I am so sad to hear of his passing. We are thinking of you all
Barbara, so very sorry to hear this. What a lovely tribute. I love the website . Thinking of you and sending love and hugs your way.
Barbara, my sincerest condolences
So sorry for your loss. I hope his memory will always be beautiful
Sending you love and support. So sorry for your loss
I’m very sorry to hear of his passing. I also let my mom know.
Sending you love. So sorry.
I am so sorry
Barbara. My condolences on your loss of Sam.
So so sorry, Barbara. He sounds like he was a very special and loving man. I’m glad you had many good years together. May his memory be for a blessing.
Sending healing thoughts and prayers Barbara
Barbara, Your Sam sounds like the kind of man I wish I’d known. My deep condolences to you and your family on Sam’s passing. I won’t say ‘loss’ because he’ll be with you and yours, always!
Sending loving, caring thoughts your way.
Dearest Barbara,
I know words sometimes fall short,but I’m sending a healing hug to you..
You have brought your graceful.…
Our condolences, Barbara.
He is the Man, Sam! So sorry for your loss Barbara. God Bless him
G-d bless Sam and May his memory be for a blessing to all.
A wonderful tribute to a wonderful man. My heartfelt condolences to you and your family.
Barbara, our sincere condolences for your loss. May your cherished memories of Sam sustain you through this difficult time.
What a great story of Sam and your lives together Barbara. You are a great writer and I imagined it all in pictures in my mind as I was reading. Thank-you for sharing your lively, colorful life together with Sam with the rest of us. Sending love to y…
I’m so sorry Barbara. Thinking of you.
Oh Bobbie, we are so sorry for your loss snd send you lots of love.
I am so sorry to hear the news about Sam. Here if you need someone to talk to who has just gone through this. Thinking about you and sending much love and hugs.
I am so sorry Barbara thinking about you sending you hugs and prayers.
My heart & spirit is totally with you Barbara What a beautiful & adventurous story you have with Sam
Peace & love to you & your family
Dear Barbara, I am so sorry for your loss. Peace and joyous memories
Barbara, I am so sorry to hear your sad news. My thoughts are with you and your family.
So sorry to hear about your beloved husband Sam.
Sorry to hear this news. I hope Sam will appear to you in a dream and reassure you everything is going to be okay. I’ve only known Sam thru your photos and posts, but I feel very sad. Huge hug!
I’m so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and hugs to you and your family.
I’m so sorry Barbara, if you loved him he must have been one of the great ones.
Sorry to hear about Sams passing, I know he was sick for some time.
RIP Sam
I am so sorry to hear this sad news.
I am so sad I couldn’t see him last summer…
I had so many good memories.…
So sorry for your loss Barbara. Condolences to you and your family. I enjoyed talking with Sam at family events.
What a lovely, gentle man, Barbara. Thinking of you and your family
I really enjoyed reading about Sam, seeing his personal collections and sharing in on the lovely memories of life with your many friends. Sam, a unique special person, so glad he was a friend of mine.
Sending good thoughts to you and yours…
My best to you and your family. What a fabulous tribute to your husband and the father of your children. You are blessed.
Barbara and family-sorry to hear of your loss. Sam was such a special man. He had such a good sense of humor, and I always enjoyed our conversations.
Barbara, I’m so sorry for your loss. Hugs to you and your family.
So sorry to hear this Barbara. l know you both fought the good fight. May his memory comfort you always.
So sorry to hear Barbara. Hugs to you and your family.
My condolences. Find comfort in the memories and the many years you had together. He’s no longer struggling. Hugs
My deepest condolences to you and your family, Barbara. May fond memories give you comfort.
So hard to find the words I’m so sorry. Luvlisa
I’m so sorry Barbara. Sam certainly sounds like a charmer with intelligent wit, quite the combination. I would have loved to have known him. My thoughts are with you.
I’m sorry for your loss. My condolences.
So sorry to hear. Sending you love and strength. May the memories you shared all be happy. My love to you
I can’t imagine the pain you’re coping with during this tragic time in your life. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this loss right now. You’re in my heart, and my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Barb, I am so sorry for your family’s loss. Thank you for sharing more of Sam’s story on the tribute site. His spirit has touched so many and continues to do so. Sending you all my love and thoughts.
Barbara, I am so sorry for your loss. Your website is filed with such love. May his memory be a blessing.
Dear old friend, my heart reaches out to you. How wonderful that you had one another. How unfair that he’s been taken from you. Grieve gently, my friend, again, so sorry
Barbara this is sad, and a big adjustment. And a very classy exit. Be well…
Barbara I am so very sorry to hear of Sam’s passing. My thoughts are with you and your dear family.
Barbara, so sorry for your loss. My sincere condolences to you and your whole family. RIP Sam
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved husband. May your loving memories sustain you during these difficult times.
So sorry Barbara. I’m sending my admiration for Sam love to the entire family.
This is such sad news. Your tribute to Sam is very touching. So sorry for your loss
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Oh Barbara, I am so sorry. Sincere condolences.
Barbara- I’m so sorry to hear this news. Sending you much love and comfort.
My condolences Barbara Silverman. What a wonderful remembrance of him.
Hello Barbara, I am so sorry for your loss. This is a beautiful presentation, your post and the site. Words mean little at time like these but please know people, including me, care. Much love to you and your family.
So sorry to read this Barbara. May his memory be a blessing for you and your family.
So sorry to hear the news Barbara
So sorry for your loss Barbara.
Barbara thinking of you and your family. Thank you for this beautiful tribute to Sam. You lovingly took care of him.
I am so sorry for your loss Barbara. Your tribute to Sam themansam.com, showcases the incredible joy, laughter, and amazing fun times Sam brought to ALL our lives and will continue to live on. Sending my love to you and all your loved ones.
THEMANSAM.COM
the man, sam
My prayers are with you and your family. Sounds like he was a great funny man
God Bless
Barbara, I am so saddened to hear this news. Sending you and all the family our love and and sincerest condolences and wishing you all a long life.
Barbara, so sorry to hear of Sam’s passing. I know he fought long and hard. May you, Jesse and Brett find comfort and joy holding beautiful memories of Sam in you hearts. Love you
Dearest Barbara…sending heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. May you hold your happy memories close to your heart.
May you have the Comfort of God. So sorry for your loss.
I join in this chorus of sincerest condolences to you and your beautiful family.
Sam does live on in memories of many wonderful times we shared. May he Rest In Peace.
I saw Marks picture of Sam and pretty sure I saw that guy at SU. I graduated 1970. So I came here to look. All I can say is I wish I knew Sam, and lived half as great a life. May his memory be a blessing!
I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. Sending you love, hugs, and prayers.
Condolences on your loss.
So very sorry Barbara. My heart and prayers are with you and all your Ohana Aloha oe’ Sam the man Safe Journey
Sam was a true friend to me in my time of trouble, I will remember that. So sorry for your loss, Barbara. Wishing love and peace to your family.
I remember him, he was charming. May his memory be a blessing.
Barbara, condolences to you and your family. He sounds like a great, memorable person. Cherish your memories.
What an awesome tribute to Sam. You are an amazing wife, mother and woman….big hugs to you all
My sincere condolences to you and your family. Themansam site is a lovely tribute to Sam and your lives together. He truly made an impact in many ways and had a full and interesting life.
I’m so sorry to hear this sad news . Prayers and courage and let those loving memories live on !
My sincerest condolences on your loss Barbara. May his memory be for a blessing to you and your family. Sending love and peace.
Baruch dayan ha Emet may his memory be a blessing and may those treasured memories wrap you and all who knew and loved him in profound and exquisite comfort.
I am so so sorry Barbara. Sending my deepest condolences to you and your family
I’m so sorry to hear about Sam, Barbara. I know your whole wonderful family will miss him tremendously.
Barbara, I’m so sorry to hear of your loss.
So sorry for your loss, sending sincerest condolences.
Dear Barbara, sending you hugs and condolences. Glad that humor has not left you alone with sadness.
My condolences to you and your family… Barbara.
I’m so sorry to hear this news. What a beautiful way to honor your memories together.
So sorry for your loss Barbara
Love and peace dear friend to you and your family – what a life well lived
So sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences.
Very sorry for your loss, Barbara
Jesse Goldstein
And for those who wish to learn a little more about him, please visit: http://themansam.com
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I’m so sorry for your loss
. May his memory be a blessing to you.
Jesse- sending you so much love. May his memory be a blessing.
I’m sorry for your loss, Jesse.
I’m so sorry to hear this Jesse. Sending love to you and your family.
Oh wow so sorry for you loss,
So sorry. Think of all of you.
Awww Jesse I’m so sorry for your loss.
I am so sorry for your loss. Sending love and well wishes to you and your family
Oh Jesse – sending much love to you and your family. So so sorry!
Sorry for your loss
He looked like an amazing man
Sorry my friend
I’m so sorry. Thinking of you and your family.
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. I just lost my dad las spring so I know how deeply it hurts. He sounds like an incredible man.
My condolences I am so sorry for your loss
So sorry for your loss. I loved reading about your dad’s amazing life stories … what a great tribute!!
So sorry for your loss!
I’m sorry for your loss, Jesse. May his memory be a blessing
So sorry for your loss
My deepest condolences Dr. Goldstein. What a beautiful tribute, he sure had an amazing and full life!
Sending you and your family my love! May your happy memories of him bring you comfort during this difficult time. I’m so glad to have met your sweet dad. May he Rest In Peace
Jesse I’m so sorry to hear this. I have many fond memories of our families together back in the Havurah days. I’m sending love to you and your family. May your dad’s memory be a blessing.
I’m so sorry for your loss. May his memory be a blessing.
So sorry for your loss
Hi Jesse. Your dad was the best. I have many great memories of our families together, parties, holidays. You are certainly the best of him and I can see that in all the great pics of your kids online . Sending lots of hugs.
So sorry for your loss.
I’m so sad to hear this I also have so many fun memories of our families celebrating holidays together. May his memory be a blessing
I’m so sorry to hear this. You and your family are in my thoughts.
Sending love, Jesse. I know his memory will be a blessing.
I’m so sorry Jesse…its hard losing a parent…keep good memories close to your heart…Praying for comfort for your entire family
So sorry Jesse
So sorry.
I am so sorry for your loss Jesse
Awwwww Jesse I’m so sorry. It sounds like your dad was pretty rad and will be deeply missed by many. Sending love and light to you and your family.
So sorry for your loss Jesse
Very sorry for your loss. Thinking of all of you during this difficult time
Sending you and your family love and prayers. I’m so sorry for your loss.
Never replace. I lost my dad when I was a junior in dental school. Still miss him every day. So sorry. Memories are precious. Praying for your family
So sorry Jesse.
Deepest condolences Jesse. So sorry!
Jesse, I am so sorry for your loss. May your father’s memory be a blessing.
My deepest condolences Jesse. Big hug to you and your family
Jesse
So very sorry for your loss. I am thinking of you and your family. I know how hard this is.
Lorelei
I’m sorry to hear this news. My condolences to you and your family xoxoxo
Jesse I’m so sorry for your loss
Jesse——-I am sorry for your loss. He sounds like an amazing man
Love the website. So sorry to hear about your dad. He was awesome!
I’m so sorry for your loss Dr.Goldstein
So sorry for you loss! Love the photos and the bio. He definitely was an amazing man and father!
I’m so sorry to hear this Jesse x
So sorry for your loss.
Deepest condolences on your loss
Jesse
So very sorry for your loss. It’s never easy. He will be in your heart and your soul for life. G-d speed my friend
I have wonderful and happy memories of your Dad. Sending hugs to you and your family during this difficult time. May Sam Rest In Peace.
Sending all the prayers and love your way
So sorry to hear.
So sorry Jesse. Sending hugs and strength to you and your family at this difficult time.
Sorry for your loss for you and your family Jesse. Those pictures are exactly how I remember him.
So sorry, Jesse…….
Went through this with mom just 2 years ago……. it never gets easier……
Sounds like a great person. May his memory be a blessing.
I’m sorry for your loss.
So sorry for your loss. Prayers going up.
I’m so sorry
Jesse I am very sorry for your loss, your dad sounded like a wonderful man
I am so sorry to hear this.
I had wonderful memories of Sam.
So sorry, Jesse. Thanks for sharing.
So incredibly sorry for your loss, Jesse. What beautiful words about an obviously outstanding man.
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Beautiful words Jesse! I have tears in my eyes. May your dad’s unique laugh live on.
I’m so very sorry for your loss. It’s extremely hard to lose a parent. My thoughts are with you and your family
Oh Jesse, so sorry to hear this. Thinking of you and your family.
So sorry for your loss. Much love.
Your dad sounds like a wonderful character of a guy.
So sorry for your loss Jesse
So sorry for your loss.
Condolences to you and your family, Jesse. Any man who was your dad must have been quite special as I have just read. May his memory always be a blessing, z”l.
Sorry for your loss my friend.
Omg so sorry to read this. May his memory be a blessing. Sending you so much love.
Jesse, what a wonderful father and a beautiful crazy life he led. I am so very sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
Sorry for your loss Jesse.
Dear Jesse,
I’m so sorry for your loss.
Jesse, I am so sorry to hear this! May his memory be a blessing.
Oh, so sorry you lost your dad. Love and prayers being sent to you and your family. On another note-he had an awesome fro!
So sorry for your loss Jesse! Thinking of you and your family.
I am so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your entire family
these are wonderful pictures – kim told me a little about him and he sounds like a very special person- i’m thinking of your family
May his memory be a blessing.
Dear Jesse, I am so sorry for your loss.
I am so very sorry for your loss Jesse. Keeping you and your family in my prayers during this difficult time.
Oh Jesse I’m so sorry to hear this. My condolences to you and your family.
I’m so sorry for your loss, Jesse. He must have been an incredible man to raise a son like you.
My heartfelt sympathy to you and your wonderful blessed families, May his soul rest in the arms of Jesus Christ amen ,sending love and prayers
What an awesome human and an incredible legacy.
Thinking of you and the family
So sorry to hear this. Thinking of you and your family
I’m so sorry for your loss, Jesse, thinking of you and your family.
So sorry for your loss
So sorry to hear Jesse
So so sorry for your loss Jesse. May you find peace and healing in time. I’m thinking of you and your precious family.
So sorry to hear about your dad- he sounds like a truly interesting and inspiring person. Jesse and I send our love and thoughts.
What a colorful guy. Rest In Peace.
So sorry for your loss, Jesse.
My condolences. Thinking of you and your family!
My heartfelt condolences to you and your family Jesse.
I’m so sorry for your loss Jesse.
So sorry to hear this Jesse! The stories about your Dad were always nice to listen to!
I’m so sorry. Prayers to you & your family during this difficult time.
So sorry for your loss Jesse.
I’m so sorry for your loss.
My sincere condolences to you and your family Dr. Goldstein. Your father sounds like a very special man. I’m very sorry for your loss.
This is THE tribute, one i am sure he would Highly approve of! (trying to water down the grit of loss because you know I loved you and him through you and I know you have an amazing wife that has you on solid ground). Let me know if your mom needs an…
Sending my condolences…..
I am so sorry for you loss! Thinking of you and your family!
So sorry for your loss
Big hugs and deepest condolences Jesse to you and your family.
Jesse. So sorry to hear. My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. The words you have shared are beautiful. Your father must have been an amazing man and no doubt his memory will live on.
Apples don’t fall far from the tree.
So sorry to hear about your loss.
Jesse. Deeply sorry to hear about your father’s passing on. May his spirit live on through and your family.
What a wonderful tribute to an amazing man. Wow, what a legend your dad was! Your dad and my dad I think would’ve gotten along well. I’m so sorry for your loss, Jesse.
My thoughts are with you
I don’t have the words, my friend. Think of you and your family.
so sorry for your loss jesse
Beautiful tribute to your amazing Dad Jessie He will live on in you and your little ones -love and hugs to you during this difficult time
Thinking of you and your fam. Sorry to hear
Sending so much love and strength your way
Sorry for your loss
sending love jesse
So sorry for your loss, Dr. Goldstein. Thinking of you and your family during this time.
Hey, you turned out ok so he must have been a pretty awesome father. Find comfort in your family and let’s have a drink soon. Best wishes, Jesse.
Sorry for your family’s loss.
Very sorry to hear about your loss. Let me know if there is anything I can do/ drop off to your family in Walnut Creek.
Sorry for your loss Jesse. We’ll keep you and your family in prayer.
I’m so sorry Jesse. Loved his humor, smile, good heart…and of course the ‘fro.
This website honoring your father is incredible – thank you for sharing his memory with all of us – thinking of you.
Lots of love from our family to yours old friend. Condolences.
The outpouring of support and friendship my family and I have received over the past week has meant the world to us. Thank you to everyone for your prayers and kind words during this time. You have almost made me like facebook…almost.
Very sorry Jesse on the passing of your father. Deepest sympathy to you and the Goldstein
Jesse I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.
Sending you all love and our deepest sympathies on your loss.
Seems like he was quite the man. Looks like you learned to enjoy life from him. It’s a hard loss to take my condolences.
So Sorry for your loss
the man, sam 